In the following video reviews you'll learn powerful Stoic practices that will help you steady your mind and find the serenity, self-knowledge, and resilience you need to live well.
The Daily Stoic Animated Summary
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Key Takeaways
Lesson 1: What is Stoicism?
The philosophy asserts that virtue (4 cardinal virtues: self-control, courage, justice & wisdom) is happiness and it is our perception of things, rather than things themselves that cause most of our trouble.
That we don’t control and cannot rely on external events, only ourselves and our responses.
Stoicism teaches that we can’t control or rely on anything outside what Epictetus called our “reasoned choice”- our ability to use reason to choose how we categorize, respond, and reorient ourselves to external events.
Stoicism has just a few central teachings.
- It sets out to remind us of how unpredictable the world can be.
- How brief our moment of life is.
- How to be steadfast, and strong, and in control of yourself.
- That the source of our dissatisfaction lies in our impulsive dependency on our reflexive senses rather than logic.
Stoicism doesn’t concern itself with complicated theories about the world, but with helping us overcome destructive emotions and act on what can be acted upon. It’s built for action, not endless debate.
We suffer not from the events in our lives, but from our judgment of them.
Lesson 2: Direct Your Efforts
Plan all the way to the end, begin with the end in mind.
By having no direction, and so you are driven into failure or worse into madness by the oblivion of directionlessness.
You’ll feel better choosing anything rather than lying in your bed and letting bad thoughts well around in your head.
Lesson 3: Know Thyself
Each night, Stoics would often reflect on themselves. Often asking questions like who am I? What’s important to me? What do I like?
Everyone is different. Knowing what makes you happy or sad or your strengths and weaknesses will allow you to live a better life.
Lesson 4: Change Your Expectations
Expect things to not go the way you plan and accept it for what it is. By wanting nothing, we can have everything.
"No person has the power to have everything they want, but it is in their power not to want what they don't have, and to cheerfully put to good use what they do have."
Lesson 5: Expect the Unexpected
You might lose your job, get kicked out of home or lose a friend. Life happens.
These are things you can’t control, but you can control your opinion, choice, and desire.
The Stoic realizes that reacting negatively is pointless. Is complaining and frolicking about it really going to solve anything?
Lesson 6: Nothing is Inherently Good or Bad
If someone sends you an angry email, but you never see it, did it actually happen? It requires your participation in order for it to be bad.
It’s our reaction that decides what’s good or bad. How you choose to perceive it.
Lesson 7: Dealing with Haters
The Stoic does two things when they encounter hate. Is this opinion inside my control? If there is a chance for influence, they take it. If not, they accept the person as they are and don’t hate back.
Lesson 8: Your actual needs are small
We don’t need as much as we think.
Lesson 9: Don't Get Mad
We would rather feel bitter keeping something to ourselves instead of risking the awkward conversation that might actually make this world a better place.
"If the person will listen, you will have cured them without using anger. No drama nor unseemly show required."
Lesson 10: Complaining is Futile
Complaining accomplishes nothing, expect puts yourself and others in a negative state of mind. Complain less. appreciate more.
Lesson 11: Attachments are the Enemy
According to Anthony DeMello, there is only one thing that causes unhappiness and the name of that thing is attachments.
Attachments to a certain lifestyle, person, place or thing.
All of these are outside of our control. We must adapt or die.
Lesson 12: Life is Long as Long as You Know How to Use it
Is life really short? It’s not that our life is short, it’s that we don’t make good use of it.
Complaining, working a shitty job, and settling for less makes a short life.
A long life is one in which you develop yourself, be kind and do what you love on a daily basis.
Lesson 13: The Big 3
Stoicism in a nutshell.
1. Control your perceptions
2. Direct your actions properly
3. Accept what’s outside your control
"all you need are these: certainty of judgment in the present moment; action for good in the present moment; and an attitude of gratitude in the present moment for anything that comes your way."
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Key Takeaways
"The single most important practice in Stoic philosophy is differentiating between what we can change and what we can't."
The right Stoic idea can provide clarity and ready your mind for the challenges ahead.
- Aurelius used Stoic philosophy to produce the headache of running a massive Roman Empire.
- Epictetus relied on stoic philosophy to endure life as a slave and go on to become a highly regarded teacher in Rome.
The Daily Stoic contains 366 stoic meditations that will help ready your mind every day for a year.
5 Essential Stoic Meditations
Lesson 1: The one thing I control is my mind.
I don’t control my body. My body can be damaged in a car crash or confined to a bed after being exposed to a virus.
I don’t control my day. If I get an emergency phone call from my wife, my plans get scrapped.
The only thing I control is my mind. More specifically I control how I reason and how I respond to events.
I can choose to be curious when others are afraid and I can choose to see opportunities when others see threats.
Knowing I only control my mind is liberating because if I use sound reasoning I’ve done everything in my power and can simply let whatever happens, happen.
Lesson 2: I can do three things.
When you encounter a stressful situation, you can do three things: alter your perspective, take right action or endure.
The first thing you can do to combat alter your perspective.
The second thing you can do to combat a stressful situation is to take right action.
Avoiding, delaying and blaming others are actions, but they aren’t right actions.
Right action improves your situation and gets you closer to your goal.
The third thing you can do to combat a stressful situation is to endure.
Identify one problem you expect to face and simulate altering your perspective, taking right action, and enduring.
Lesson 3: Sweat the small stuff.
If in a moment of weakness today you stop by a fast food restaurant to get a burger and fries, you must now eat a burger and fries every day until you die.
If you procrastinate for an hour today, you must procrastinate for an hour every day for the rest of your life.
"Easy choices, hard life. Hard choices, easy life."
Lesson 4: Desire wisely.
"The more things we desire and the more we have to do to earn and attain those achievements, the less we actually enjoy our lives and the less free we are."
The ideal goal is to have one big desire at a time.
One thing that you will allow to dictate your emotions and thoughts for part of the day, this way you can maximize your success and your happiness.
Lesson 5: Take delight in simple things.
“Barley porridge, or a crust of barley bread, and water do not make a very cheerful diet, but nothing gives one keener pleasure than having the ability to derive pleasure even from that.”
- waking up in a temperature-controlled room and having a comforter made of soft fabric
- hot water that comes out of a shower head seconds after turning the handle